The asshole on your team.
You have someone that is a real jerk. And yet, he happens to agree with you about something. Do you let him keep being a jerk, put up with his stuff, and laugh at him when he is cruel to other people...
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Back to my reply... I wouldn't laugh, at the most. It's hard to even force a laugh when it's being derived at someone else's expense.There's a difference between good-natured teasing and being plain...
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behind the humor that makes all the difference for you, Valiowk?
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No, not that way. It's more like whether or not the person who's being mentioned would mind or not. If the person doesn't mind, if he/she knows that it's just in kind jest with no bad intention, then...
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... even a bit further, and say that it would make no difference for me whether the person mentioned (at the butt of the humour) minded or not. The only difference for me is that I cannot see humour...
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What if the joke is at the expense of someone else but they don't mind? Ie two friends making fun of each other.
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Quote: Sabe, what if the asshole is named The Chosen One? My god, is that still going on?Quote: What if the joke is at the expense of someone else but they don't mind? Ie two friends making fun of...
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The same as I feel about some hippies calling each other "dude".
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Is the deleting of posts still going on in Ouch, Karash? You have to tell me, because there is no way for me to know. And I have to.
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Yes, it is. And, the fuckers are deleting my stuff at the Slacker Council now too. I wrote a flame that was actually decent, and they got rid of it. I just don't have luck in flame forums. Ironically,...
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Quote: What if the joke is at the expense of someone else but they don't mind? Ie two friends making fun of each other.Kida: Just curious, about Karash's question earlier on...
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Which particular question? (My fault: been elsewhere focused the past 36 hours.)
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Got it.Quote: What if the joke is at the expense of someone else but they don't mind? Ie two friends making fun of each other.I will suggest that these two parts are not equivalent. Two friends making...
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OK, Kida, get your idea... I think we all didn't bother to differenciate between the 2...But about what you said...Quote: (Actually for me, an unequal relationship of this sort resting upon "I don't...
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I would define inequality in this context as where one person tends to be a consistent target over a period of time (not just a few sessions), often (but not always) to the exclusion of others -- and...
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OK, Kida. Fair enough, after all if it's a normal friendly relationship there should not be a consistant target over time.
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